Here are the five signs to tell he’s the right man for you. Remember, you don’t love someone because of their looks, clothes, or car. You love them because they sing a song only your heart can understand.
Tessa, a tech support specialist from Melbourne in her late twenties, has an active social life. She often goes to sci-fi conventions, regularly holds video game marathons at her place, and meets many people who share her interests, including guys.
As it was, Tessa had been single for some time and hoped to find a partner who could complement her personality. And even though she had a lot in common with the guys in her social circles, she couldn’t quite hit it off romantically with any of them.
So it was a complete surprise when Ben came along and swept Tessa off her feet. “He’s super active in the local sports scene and is very athletic, so he wasn’t my type at all, or so I thought,” Tessa shared with a girlish smile. They met by chance at a charity auction set up by mutual friends and clicked the moment they met.
“I couldn’t put my finger on it at first, but I knew right away he was different, and in a good way,” she gushed. “He wasn’t like any other guy I’ve met, and I don’t think it had anything to do with our interests.” “Ben has this energy and warmth about him that I love.”
How To Spot “The Mr. Right”
They far removed their worlds from each other, but that didn’t stop Tessa from falling hard for Ben. It’s surprising how couples who seem like opposites at first turn out to be perfect for each other. And most of the time, it can be tricky to figure out if a particular guy is a good match for you.
He is considering his unique personality and quirks and the whole deal about mixed signals. It’s hard to sift through all that and see the signs he’s mean for you. So how can you tell if he’s your Mr. Right or if you should keep looking?
Read on to find out.
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1: He’s Got Your Back
One thing I’ve noticed in many couples who’ve been together for years is how supportive they are of each other. It’s always a good sign when a guy endlessly encourages his partner to pursue her interests and passions no matter how “out there” they might seem.
Suppose your guy is always trying to push you forward in a healthy direction, especially when you doubt yourself. In that case, that indicates he’s a good match for you.
Finding someone who wants to see you grow and evolve is essential when looking for a partner. A guy who acts positively in your life is worth keeping around.
2: He’s Part Of Your World.
Like Tessa learned, hitting it off doesn’t have much to do with how similar your personalities or interests are. Sure, having stuff in common makes it easier to break the ice, but in the long run, it will not keep the relationship going.
The more critical factor is his willingness to be part of your life.
Tessa recalled fondly: “Ben didn’t know the first thing about Star Wars, or sci-fi movies in general, but he went with me to the midnight screening of The Force Awakens with my geek friends, and we even wore matching Jedi outfits!
I didn’t ask Ben to do that, but he suggested the idea, and I loved him for that. “If he’s into you, he’ll care about the things you do. He’ll spend his time on them because he knows those things make you. And he wants to be a part of your exciting and lively life.
3: You Share A Special Bond.
Some couples know what the other is thinking without saying a word. It’s fantastic and a little eerie to see them connect at this level that no one else can. It’s not ESP or some other supernatural phenomenon-some.
People are empathic in this way and have a radar for it. Your guy doesn’t have to be psychic or have a sixth sense, nor should you expect him to be. But if he notices you and asks if you’re okay, he’s a caring and connected companion.
This kind of man can sense something amiss in his inner world and respond to it. When he picks up on your signals, he won't just ask if you're doing alright. He will also want to help you get out of your funk, get the proverbial fly out of your soup and do anything to get you back on track. And the fact that he cares about what you're feeling or thinking speaks volumes about the kind of guy he is.
4: He’s Making The Effort.
If a guy’s essential to you, he’ll always be working overtime to ensure you’re happy. He’s big on making their partners feel provided for and protected. So he will do this in every way he can if he’s not making plans with you and creating unique, shared experiences.
He’ll try to help you with something bugging you, like fixing your smartphone or running some errand you hate. A guy worth keeping does anything to take the load off your mind and make your life easier.
Another thing you might notice is how a guy will do something with you regularly. He’ll take you out for morning coffee, walk your dog with you every Saturday, or schedule a monthly expedition at his favorite camping spot. If he does this, take note because a man needs to change his schedule more easily.
Only a guy in “single” mode will insist on keeping his appointments as they are. On the other hand, a guy in love will suddenly have all the reasons in the world to make his schedule more flexible than a contortionist at the circus.
More than that, he wants to create a shared life with you. So it’s not just what he does — it’s also the amount of time he gives up and the trouble he goes through in the name of your happiness. It is one of the most precious gifts he could give anyone.
5: He Makes Everything Awesome.
Even the most boring, everyday things become exceptional when you’re with him. You may need to run to the store to get pasta noodles or pick up a package at the post office, but you wouldn’t miss it for the world if he offered to go with you.
You’re so attracted to each other that everything else seems to fade into the background when you’re together. He wants to know everything you were up to today and likewise for you. That’s what being a soulmate is all about he turns the mundane into the magical by simply being there.
And when you’re having the worst days, you STILL want him around because you know he’s such a positive presence in your life. He’s there to hear you rant about the crazy drama you had with a co-worker or some other struggle you’re going through.
Whatever it is, he’s all ears and isn’t itching to jump in with a solution to your problems. He’ll sit quietly and listen until you’re finished talking. He’ll only offer his opinion when you ask for it and always make you feel like he hears you.
All these add to the undeniable fact that you’ve found The One. Finding this kind of connection with a man is rare, so you should pay attention when he’s showing you the right signs.
Know The Right Man For you!
More importantly, it would help if you made sure that spark keeps burning bright and firm with your Mr. Right. I’ve seen a lot of couples who were perfect for each other but drifted apart for one reason or another.
Maybe he’s not as affectionate as he was, the passion has faded, or he’s simply going through the motions. Worse, it might even seem that he’s pulling away. If you have a terrible feeling in the pit of your stomach that you can’t ignore any longer, then it’s time to know the REAL reasons why men pull away.
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